NSFW Get to know me (ship version)
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1. Fluff or noncon/dubcon?
Oh, both. Very much both! On the fluffy side, I love it when characters are just grossly in love and the sex reflects that. Bonus if they're grossly in love and also kinky. Some examples: swear to be (Wangxian, 5k, explicit), Ceasefire (Stucky, 4k, explicit), in any place you'll allow (Victuuri, 2k, explicit), The Fox/有狐 (Wenzhou, 5k, explicit)
On the noncon/dubcon side, I'm not into straight up violent noncon, but I like a lot of different variations of dub-con in fic, from heat sex/sex pollen/bad guys made them do it-style where the participants are fully willing and eager even if the circumstances are somewhat out of their control, to angsty, guilt-ridden sex where one or both characters are convinced - rightly or wrongly - that they're taking advantage of the other, to setups where one character is unaware that the other isn't equally consenting, to darker and more unequal stuff like manipulation. A few examples: until our marrows mix (Sangyao, 12k, explicit), the road to hell is paved with good intentions (home) (Xiyao, 6k, mature), smoke gets in my brain (Jadecest, 4k, explicit), my touch magnifies (Wenzhou+YBY, 7k, explicit), call my name and i'll be gone (Stucky, 2k, explicit)
2. Top/bottom or reversible?
Somewhat to my surprise I've discovered that top!WWX/bottom!LWJ almost never works for me, to the point that I've noped out of fics for that alone.
I'm usually not picky about top/bottom dynamics at all, and in fact often prefer explicit switching for my m/m ships, so I have absolutely no idea why Wangxian is different.
3. What's your favorite ship dynamic?
Friends to lovers who endure some kind of tragic separation and then reunite as close as ever is an oddly specific pattern that holds true of a surprising number of my OTPs over the years.
4. If you could get any NSFW art what would it be?
Ooo, that is a good question. I don't commission art because I have a very poor visual imagination (I'm usually about a 4 on this scale) but looking through some of my favorite NSFW pics, I tend to like blissed out expressions, evocative poses, and bruises/bitemarks/scratches.
A few recent faves as examples: Ranwan (⚠️for implied non-con), Wangxian (ironic, given what I just said about Bottomji in fic, I know, but I like his expression and how tightly he's clinging to WWX; ⚠️ for blood), Wangxian
5. How lewd are you?
Most people in real life seem to assume I'm a prude, so not very, lol. But writing smut is fun and reading it is even more fun.
6. How often are you hornee?
Haha, how TMI to get? I'm old enough that I've been everywhere from "constantly" to "never" in my life, currently somewhere in between.
7. What is your top favorite NSFW tag?
🤐 Taking the fifth on my top favorite NSFW tag (it's nothing too hardcore, just embarrassing), but I love good UST turning into good smut, so "first time" is one of the top NSFW tags in my public bookmarks.
8. Does your ship use sex toys?
Hmm, I feel like I read less sex toy fic for Wangxian than some of my other ships, possibly because Wangji's canonically enormous cock is right there and pretty fun to play with on its own.
Between Wangji's canonically enormous cock and Ye Baiyi's, er, fanonically enormous one (Rowhome - Yexie, 47k, explicit - was yummy for this), I might be acquiring a previously unsuspected size kink. 😅
9. What was the lewdest thing you drew/wrote/read?
🤐🤐🤐
10. How often do you think of your OTP fucking?
Pretty often!
11. Clothes on or off during sex?
I mean, for practical reasons, off is generally better, lol, but I do love a good desperate frottage scene in fic.
12. What were you not expecting to be into?
I've found that a good enough writer can get me to be into most things, so I get surprised all the time by finding myself into things I never would have expected myself to be into. At least for the duration of the fic.
One that's been on my mind lately is humiliation. I have a really strong embarrassment squick, so I avoided humiliation kink fics completely for years and years, but more recently I've discovered that I'm into certain flavors of it. It's still very much a crapshoot whether I'll enjoy it or whether it will cross some mysterious and arbitrary line in my brain and I'll have to backbutton partway into it. Some examples that did work for me: Are you gonna be my girl? (f/f Wangxian, 14k, explicit) pushed a lot of buttons I didn't realize I had, as did The Kalends (Junzhe, 21k, explicit) and some of the fics in an early name used for videophones (Stucky, 282k, explicit).
13. What's your least favorite NSFW kink?
Most of my squicks are pretty common as squicks, I think, i.e. bathroom kinks, vore, and that sort of thing. I'm also comically squicked by feet, so foot fetish is a no go.
14. How often do you read E rated fanfics?
Very often
15. Do you RP?
Nope
16. Lingerie or cosplay?
Lingerie is something I can take or leave, it's neither a kink nor a turnoff.
The talent and creativity that goes into a lot of cosplay is extremely impressive to me, but I wouldn't say it's usually something that turns me on, either.
So, both or neither, I guess.
17. Body parts that entice you the most?
Face (especially eyes and lips), tits/pecs, arms
18. Sexiest fictional character?
Oh lord, I don't think I could pick just one, but honorable mentions to Elena Montero for a very strong attempt to hit my oblivious teenage self over the head with the fact that I'm bisexual, and Kara Thrace, who was one of the major factors in my actual, rather late-in-life bisexual awakening.
19. Is your ship in lust or love?
Both!
20. What song would your ship listen to in the background while they fuck
No idea
21. Does either character in your ship watch porn
Wangxian: Wei Wuxian is canonically into it as a teenager. I feel like Wangji probably avoided it out of shame when he was young, but has gotten more chill about it as an adult.
Stucky: I don't think you can rule out the possibility that Steve DREW it to make extra money when he was a poor art student, but while I don't think they avoid it, I think Steve and Bucky are both more into each other than art/video of random strangers.
22. Which character is more likely to have a wet dream
Wangxian: Wangji
Stucky: I think about equally likely
23. Is your ship into roleplay?
Wangxian: Definitely, especially Wei Wuxian
Stucky: probably not
24. Other favorite NSFW kinks?
Dom/sub, dirty talk, and rough sex are some of the most frequent tags in my smut bookmarks. In slightly more specific/uncommon stuff, I like wall sex, intercrural sex, biting, and kink discovery, among lots more.
25. Would your ship participate in a threesome?
Back when Stucky was my primary fic consumption, the answer would have been an emphatic yes. I especially like Steve/Bucky/Peggy, Steve/Bucky/Natasha, and Steve/Bucky/Sam, and read a bunch of all three.
Wangxian I'm kind of torn about. I like threesome fics and have therefore read a number of Wangxian OT3s, but I think of Wangji as being fairly possessive, so they don't always work for me as well as I want them to. My favorite so far is the NMJ/LWJ/WWX fic An Elegant Solution (205k, explicit), and I've also recced a bit of LWJ/WWX/LXC and LWJ/WWX/JC.
26. What is your most embarrassing kink?
Lol, nope, taking the fifth again. 🤐
The most embarrassing thing I'll talk about publicly (since it's obvious from my tag list) is the number of incest ships I like. I'm always surprised by it, since I don't consider myself into incest as a kink, but there's a certain flavor of codependency that I like in fiction that often seems to manifest in incest - especially sibling incest - ships. Cesare/Lucrezia (Showtime version) is probably the supreme example.
27. Which character has more stamina in bed?
For Wangxian: Wangji
For Stucky: Steve, but only narrowly.
28. What's your favorite NSFW thing about your ship?
For Wangxian: that they're canonically kinky
For Stucky: marathon supersoldier sex!
1. Fluff or noncon/dubcon?
Oh, both. Very much both! On the fluffy side, I love it when characters are just grossly in love and the sex reflects that. Bonus if they're grossly in love and also kinky. Some examples: swear to be (Wangxian, 5k, explicit), Ceasefire (Stucky, 4k, explicit), in any place you'll allow (Victuuri, 2k, explicit), The Fox/有狐 (Wenzhou, 5k, explicit)
On the noncon/dubcon side, I'm not into straight up violent noncon, but I like a lot of different variations of dub-con in fic, from heat sex/sex pollen/bad guys made them do it-style where the participants are fully willing and eager even if the circumstances are somewhat out of their control, to angsty, guilt-ridden sex where one or both characters are convinced - rightly or wrongly - that they're taking advantage of the other, to setups where one character is unaware that the other isn't equally consenting, to darker and more unequal stuff like manipulation. A few examples: until our marrows mix (Sangyao, 12k, explicit), the road to hell is paved with good intentions (home) (Xiyao, 6k, mature), smoke gets in my brain (Jadecest, 4k, explicit), my touch magnifies (Wenzhou+YBY, 7k, explicit), call my name and i'll be gone (Stucky, 2k, explicit)
2. Top/bottom or reversible?
Somewhat to my surprise I've discovered that top!WWX/bottom!LWJ almost never works for me, to the point that I've noped out of fics for that alone.
I'm usually not picky about top/bottom dynamics at all, and in fact often prefer explicit switching for my m/m ships, so I have absolutely no idea why Wangxian is different.
3. What's your favorite ship dynamic?
Friends to lovers who endure some kind of tragic separation and then reunite as close as ever is an oddly specific pattern that holds true of a surprising number of my OTPs over the years.
4. If you could get any NSFW art what would it be?
Ooo, that is a good question. I don't commission art because I have a very poor visual imagination (I'm usually about a 4 on this scale) but looking through some of my favorite NSFW pics, I tend to like blissed out expressions, evocative poses, and bruises/bitemarks/scratches.
A few recent faves as examples: Ranwan (⚠️for implied non-con), Wangxian (ironic, given what I just said about Bottomji in fic, I know, but I like his expression and how tightly he's clinging to WWX; ⚠️ for blood), Wangxian
5. How lewd are you?
Most people in real life seem to assume I'm a prude, so not very, lol. But writing smut is fun and reading it is even more fun.
6. How often are you hornee?
Haha, how TMI to get? I'm old enough that I've been everywhere from "constantly" to "never" in my life, currently somewhere in between.
7. What is your top favorite NSFW tag?
🤐 Taking the fifth on my top favorite NSFW tag (it's nothing too hardcore, just embarrassing), but I love good UST turning into good smut, so "first time" is one of the top NSFW tags in my public bookmarks.
8. Does your ship use sex toys?
Hmm, I feel like I read less sex toy fic for Wangxian than some of my other ships, possibly because Wangji's canonically enormous cock is right there and pretty fun to play with on its own.
Between Wangji's canonically enormous cock and Ye Baiyi's, er, fanonically enormous one (Rowhome - Yexie, 47k, explicit - was yummy for this), I might be acquiring a previously unsuspected size kink. 😅
9. What was the lewdest thing you drew/wrote/read?
🤐🤐🤐
10. How often do you think of your OTP fucking?
Pretty often!
11. Clothes on or off during sex?
I mean, for practical reasons, off is generally better, lol, but I do love a good desperate frottage scene in fic.
12. What were you not expecting to be into?
I've found that a good enough writer can get me to be into most things, so I get surprised all the time by finding myself into things I never would have expected myself to be into. At least for the duration of the fic.
One that's been on my mind lately is humiliation. I have a really strong embarrassment squick, so I avoided humiliation kink fics completely for years and years, but more recently I've discovered that I'm into certain flavors of it. It's still very much a crapshoot whether I'll enjoy it or whether it will cross some mysterious and arbitrary line in my brain and I'll have to backbutton partway into it. Some examples that did work for me: Are you gonna be my girl? (f/f Wangxian, 14k, explicit) pushed a lot of buttons I didn't realize I had, as did The Kalends (Junzhe, 21k, explicit) and some of the fics in an early name used for videophones (Stucky, 282k, explicit).
13. What's your least favorite NSFW kink?
Most of my squicks are pretty common as squicks, I think, i.e. bathroom kinks, vore, and that sort of thing. I'm also comically squicked by feet, so foot fetish is a no go.
14. How often do you read E rated fanfics?
Very often
15. Do you RP?
Nope
16. Lingerie or cosplay?
Lingerie is something I can take or leave, it's neither a kink nor a turnoff.
The talent and creativity that goes into a lot of cosplay is extremely impressive to me, but I wouldn't say it's usually something that turns me on, either.
So, both or neither, I guess.
17. Body parts that entice you the most?
Face (especially eyes and lips), tits/pecs, arms
18. Sexiest fictional character?
Oh lord, I don't think I could pick just one, but honorable mentions to Elena Montero for a very strong attempt to hit my oblivious teenage self over the head with the fact that I'm bisexual, and Kara Thrace, who was one of the major factors in my actual, rather late-in-life bisexual awakening.
19. Is your ship in lust or love?
Both!
20. What song would your ship listen to in the background while they fuck
No idea
21. Does either character in your ship watch porn
Wangxian: Wei Wuxian is canonically into it as a teenager. I feel like Wangji probably avoided it out of shame when he was young, but has gotten more chill about it as an adult.
Stucky: I don't think you can rule out the possibility that Steve DREW it to make extra money when he was a poor art student, but while I don't think they avoid it, I think Steve and Bucky are both more into each other than art/video of random strangers.
22. Which character is more likely to have a wet dream
Wangxian: Wangji
Stucky: I think about equally likely
23. Is your ship into roleplay?
Wangxian: Definitely, especially Wei Wuxian
Stucky: probably not
24. Other favorite NSFW kinks?
Dom/sub, dirty talk, and rough sex are some of the most frequent tags in my smut bookmarks. In slightly more specific/uncommon stuff, I like wall sex, intercrural sex, biting, and kink discovery, among lots more.
25. Would your ship participate in a threesome?
Back when Stucky was my primary fic consumption, the answer would have been an emphatic yes. I especially like Steve/Bucky/Peggy, Steve/Bucky/Natasha, and Steve/Bucky/Sam, and read a bunch of all three.
Wangxian I'm kind of torn about. I like threesome fics and have therefore read a number of Wangxian OT3s, but I think of Wangji as being fairly possessive, so they don't always work for me as well as I want them to. My favorite so far is the NMJ/LWJ/WWX fic An Elegant Solution (205k, explicit), and I've also recced a bit of LWJ/WWX/LXC and LWJ/WWX/JC.
26. What is your most embarrassing kink?
Lol, nope, taking the fifth again. 🤐
The most embarrassing thing I'll talk about publicly (since it's obvious from my tag list) is the number of incest ships I like. I'm always surprised by it, since I don't consider myself into incest as a kink, but there's a certain flavor of codependency that I like in fiction that often seems to manifest in incest - especially sibling incest - ships. Cesare/Lucrezia (Showtime version) is probably the supreme example.
27. Which character has more stamina in bed?
For Wangxian: Wangji
For Stucky: Steve, but only narrowly.
28. What's your favorite NSFW thing about your ship?
For Wangxian: that they're canonically kinky
For Stucky: marathon supersoldier sex!
